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Kimberly's avatar

Jamie, thank you! I appreciate your openness about your debt journey. It really helps to hear your story, what worked and what didn't.

I wish I could say I've only been in a credit card 'situation' once in my life but that would be a lie. I've used the avalanche method multiple times over and it's always worked for me, but quite obviously I haven't tackled the reason why I keep doing this. This time in particular was due partly to Covid and an expensive medical bill two years in a row, compounded by the ever-increasing interest rates. I'm curious, have you had any luck calling a credit card company and asking for a reduction in the interest rate?

The quote you included from Suze is one I haven't heard before. For me, it's the shame of not being able to manage my finances. That shame turns into a really heavy burden (secret) that I carry and one I'm not willing to share with people for fear of adding to the shame. It sucks. I was raised with a spender mom and a super frugal father neither of whom ever discussed money with us kids. The only thing we were ever told, and it was drilled into us, was to save money. So helpful. Not how to save money, manage bills, budget, etc. - just save it. If only.

I have considered doing the 0% APR promo as the interest rates are killing me, but it really chafes thinking about the 3-5% fees. For now, I'm sticking to as close to a zero-budget spend as I can and watching it like a hawk.

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Samantha Feldman's avatar

👏👏👏

FY#1F

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